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Chop My Grocery List ...

... Sounds like the title of a great new reality show featuring moms everywhere desperate to keep their money in their purses and the smiles on their faces ...

Truth be told, I am not consistently faring well with the whole cutting grocery expenses. Some weeks are very good. Others, I just want to give up, go on a huge shopping binge and then want to yak it all out afterward. It's a terrible feeling knowing that you should be trying harder, but truly just do not have the energy. And, these days, energy has been eluding me, for some reason.

And, just when I think I've kept to my budget ... something happens and I still need to go back to the store for something or two somethings. Maybe it's because my two 2-year-olds are so dang unpredictable. One minute they hardly eat a crumb and the next they are devouring a cart load of groceries per meal. And, heaven freakin' forbid it if a pea crosses the yellow line into the rice because then the whole meal is a total goner.

But, I have learned a lot and I do know that our grocery costs are down a good bit from this time last year when I really knew nothing about feeding toddlers.

We still shop weekly at Aldi, and I love that store so much, and I still CVS, but rarely since there aren't any coupons out saving extra since the prices there are pretty high to begin with. Mostly, I am trying to make my regular grocery store and Wal-Mart where I see the most decrease in costs.

Yes, I wrote Wal-Mart. The store that I detest beyond belief and now shop at now and then only because we need to save every cent possible right now.

But, my quest continues. Food is expensive. Lists seem to grow longer not shorter around here. We stockpile when possible, but it's just not always possible. I will say that signing up for freebies has been a great deal of fun. In fact, we've gotten some very cool things that are almost always paired with very good coupons.

And, sticking to the budgeted menu is helping. Though, not perfectly just yet. But, I like challenges. I'm up for it. I can do this. And so can you. We can beat them at their own game, right?

How about you? Anyone finding great ways to save on groceries since I confessed my addiction to The Art of Coupons?

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the Art of Coupons

We are not extravagant people by any means. We -- as in I -- like gourmet food, which means I like more costly foods like avocados and goat cheese and parmigiana reggiano. I watched so much Food TV in my single life that I still see mostly repeats of my favorites.

We do not wear expensive clothing or buy expensive anything. In fact, we have deprived ourselves of just about everything we've needed or wanted in the last two years in order to make ends meet. We seriously thought there was no more room in our budget for anything.

Over time, I became miserable just worrying about what we needed and couldn't afford. We know that selling and moving is the No. 1 thing we can do to relieve our situation -- for many reasons, mainly to be closer together during the day.

Our situation is rooted and all aspects are interconnected in ways that are impossible to write easily.

I have always read lots of blogs because I am in love with bloggers of all types. As a writer, I find it inspirational to see other people writing about their life and what they care most about in life. Then again, as a journalist, I dig for people's stories anyway.

The result is that I have been everywhere in the blogosphere. It's where I go first to search for tried-and-true recipes or when I want to watch You Tube with my girls but don't know where to begin. Blogs are the real voice of human beings -- and as a newspaper girl, I can say that with an air of confidence.

During National Blog Posting Month in November, I stumbled upon a blog where the mom said she feeds her family of four on $35 per week. I was dumbfounded. I couldn't believe it.

I am not sure how it happened, but I ended up returning to her site, eventually.

And that is how I "met" Crystal at Money Saving Mom. And she is the reason I am now sold on living a frugal life.

Crystal is a devout Christian. And, while my we -- my husband and I -- do not define ourselves as Christians, I trust Crystal's words and even agree with much of what she has to write about on her Money Saving Mom blog.

What I have learned from Crystal -- and her readers -- is the Art of Coupons. She taught me this first by showing me the ins and outs of CVS Pharmacy. I have since mastered CVS and am now schooling myself in Walgreen's and Rite Aid.

What I learned quickly is that what I was spending on just shampoo and conditioner alone before November is the same amount that I can buy a cart full of items. But, it takes work and planning and ... gasp ... math!

I have spent roughly $30 at CVS for more than $150 worth of stuff in the last two months and our depleted stash of things like toilet paper and toothpaste suddenly are now sitting and waiting to be used. Same with shampoo and conditioner and dish detergent, including for the dishwasher. And, the best part is that if I do everything right, I will rarely have to spend another dime in that store again.

No, actually, the best part is that by learning the ropes of coupons -- the dos and don'ts -- I am now saving roughly 33 percent at other stores as well. Dan did the math.

The tricks are in what you do not know -- what the stores and manufacturers do not tell you.

Here's what I've learned so far: My Top 5 Ways to Save, which is unrelated to my 25 Ways to Save.

1. Collect Coupons: If you see a coupon in the store grab it. You don't need to use it that day or even in that store. Buy one Sunday newspaper for the coupons, but on the really good coupon days buy two and ask friends and relatives for theirs. It's not that difficult once you establish people.

2. Watch for sales: The trick to coupons is mixing manufacturer coupons with store coupons and store sales. So, if Jif Peanut Butter is on sale for .99 and you have a coupon for $1/1 -- free peanut butter. And, in our case, it's the kind we use. You can't beat free peanut butter. Once you see what is on sale this week, build a menu mixing those sale items and what you already have on hand. Oh, and in case you don't know it: You don't really have to buy X number of items to get the sale price. You can just buy one.

3. Push your luck: You have to take risks to save. The stores will not hold your hand so you have to ask questions, dig around, and be adventurous. This means if your store is having a Buy One Get One sale, and you have a Buy One Get One coupon, you will get both items for free. Or, if the sale is buy 3 for $3, you can use 3 coupons making the deal sweeter, or possibly free.

4. Watch for deals online: For Christmas, I got some great deals once I became a convert (ie: dissing the buy generic idea). Inexpensive magazine subscriptions, restaurant gift certificates and even a free tool set for Dan.

5. Sign up for freebies: There are sites all over the Internet offering free things. While they are not usually spectacular, some good ones do show up in the mail now and then. Last week I received a free Coffee-Mate creamer coupon. Our store had them on sale and mixed with another coupon, I got two for .50 cents. The coupons that come along with freebies are often better than the freebies.

Bonus Tip: Get over your brand loyalty. Seriously. Now. This doesn't mean buy things you don't need or want, but it's been worth it to me to try new products and learn that they are, indeed, very good, if not better than what we had been using. In fact, we stumbled upon the best toothpaste after getting it free at CVS. This toothpaste is so good Dan and I were squabbling over whether he could take a tube to work yesterday.

Now, obviously, you're going to have to pay full price for some things if you really want them -- like fresh produce, which I need to be as fresh as possible. But making radical changes like buying a whole pineapple instead of canned makes me feel great and I do think it lasts a bit longer -- or it should, anyway, except that it is so yummy that everyone eats it up quickly.

The bottom line for me is that I'm now schooled in the Art of Coupons. And, like I said, to really see a difference, it takes time -- all day some days and weeks, even, to see a real change in your buying habits. Crystal promises me that it will get easier, though. I'm holding her to that.

What matters most to me, though, is the confidence I now have about money and that is carrying over into the rest of our lives as well.

In my next post, I'll talk about budgeting and meal planning a bit more. These are very hard to do, indeed.








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In which I can't write a blog post

A big part of my problem lately -- and I know you've noticed -- is that my mind is focused elsewhere.

I used to be able to wake up and go through my day and easily sit down and digest it and write about it. That is no longer the case.

Writing got in the way. Professional writing, that is.

Life got in the way. The frugal life, that is.

You see, last November I started handling our family finances. Since I do all of the spending, we realized it made no sense for Dan to handle the money. All along he could tell me we had XX amount in the checking and I would hear him, but then would disregard it and tell him that we needed XY and Z this week. He'd graciously move that money from savings or do whatever and I would get XYZ that week.

Enter: Wake Up Call. By doing the bills myself I see firsthand how little we have to work with -- until we sell this house, anyway. But, it also gives me a weekly project to see just how creative I can get to get what we need and want, without sacrificing our savings.

The truth is that we've been tight -- living on the edge -- for as long as we've been married. When we had less bills and more income, it was tight because we spent too much. Now, with more bills, less income, it's still tight -- and yet we're making it.

What I learned, though, is that as the cook and grocery buyer, I have a lot to do with making it or not making it and everything between. I'm also someone who gets what she wants.

And so in the last two months, I've discovered a world of frugal living. I'm collecting coupons and comparison shopping. Instead of rushing to the nearby newest grocery store that has top of the line everything, I've become an Aldi-lover.

But, all of this is very time consuming. Sundays are now spent searching all store sales for the best deals and clipping coupons and shopping. Meal planning, too, is very important.

And, since I see it working and we're seeing a dramatic change in our outgo, it's become rather addictive. Honestly, I dig getting good deals and, as it turns out, am pretty good at it.

Now, my days are torn between planning toddler activities, making meals, planning pitches to send to magazines, writing for current clients and searching for the latest deals for things we need.

There is so very little time leftover and when there is I'm spent and heading off to bed.

We didn't know when we bought this house that twins were going to come along, which would change our financial outlook completely. We didn't know anything that we know now, which seems like everything. I know it isn't.

But, we know what our values are and where we want to be, which makes it easier to be frugal. We have purpose to save now when in the past we didn't.

So, if you do not hear from me for a day or two, I might be plotting how I can get to the Aquarium or Zoo this summer for cheap because I refuse to give up my lifestyle altogether!

I want to give a great big thanks and hug to Bella for awarding me with a Daily Dose award, which lately I'm sure I do not deserve.



I will bestow this honor on a couple others later this week ... since this laptop isn't as nice to work on than my office computer which is TWO FLOORS UP, people.

And, I will probably surprise you with who I confess my true daily -- or more than daily -- reads really are. I mean, besides the obvious several who get links from me all the time.


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